gender 

One misgendering really fucks with me I guess.
Maybe people aren't just parsing be female or cis
Maybe I just look like a guy and pronouns rarely come up around me.

Of course I'm going to dwell on this

Of course *sigh*

gender, species, dark 

There's no point anyway. The tangibles. Gender or species. I'm never going to get there anyway. I'll be long dead. Just have to be happy with the abstract. The inner stuff. The subjective. No one may ever see that. But it is all I will ever have.

Don't mourn me when I'm dead. I mean, is not going to be any time soon, but in general. The end of suffering sounds so peaceful. I've a better chance at all this next cycle, anyway.

gender 

@Oneironott *gentle pettings*

Well, it might be messing with you more right now because you've had a good long string of being accurately gendered. You're fine, hon, remember how much happy you've been in the last few weeks of /good/ results.

gender 

@Oneironott (accurately gendered to a better degree than being male-gendered, I mean, leaving aside for the moment the non-binary)

gender 

@emanate I just… haven't been gendered around me? Like… I had just assumed since I hadn't gotten misgendering to my face
But I guess that doesn't mean people are gendering me correctly…

gender 

@Oneironott If it helps, I can tell you from having seen your pictures that I parse you as a woman and the only reason I don't parse you as cis is because you explicitly told me you're trans.

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