hey, i'm a short, fat, passing trans woman in her 30s, i've been on hormones for 9 months, i have an eating disorder, i have adhd and probably cptsd.
i get triggered by these things:
- being yelled at by peers
- stories about people being rejected
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Thanks to some unexpected dental stuff over the summer that insurance barely covered, our savings were depleted and we've been squeezing by since then. We didn't do so well this month and we still have groceries and medical stuff we need to pay for. Any boosts and help would be awesome!
Cash app: AlanaDeryn
racism, US car insurance
"”Cities and towns with majority Black residents experience among the highest quote prices compared to cities of any other racial makeup, regardless of how clean their driving record is,” the report states. “A driver with a clean record living in a majority-Black neighborhood pays almost 20 percent more for car insurance on average than a driver living in a majority-White neighborhood who has prior driving offenses.”
As the report tells it, the industry practices a form of “redlining,” the long-illegal practice in which banks used to deny or charge more for loans to homeowners in Black areas — although it doesn’t use the term: “A similar pattern holds for homeownership and credit score, with a 13-percent increase in car insurance costs for homeowners in Black neighborhoods compared renters in White ones and a 24-percent increase for car owners with excellent credit in Black neighborhoods compared to poor credit in White neighborhoods,” the report says."
This twitter thread from the Caves Of Qud devs about how they keep the alt-right out of their game community is worth reading.
hey y'all i've temporarily reduced my commission prices! we're kinda poor and need to buy food right now, and i'm nearly £40 over my overdraft. come get some cute cheap art y'all!
£75 front + back view
£100 front back and side view
NSFW, Furry, Fandom, and Original Characters all welcome.
Payment up front thru paypal
Plural gatekeeping with a side dish of DARVO
The continued albiest bahavior in fandom spaces
Imagine thinking that you have to suffer an arbitrary amount for the right to have an identity, and imposing that standard on everyone else around you, and creating a false zero sum game between people like you, and people different to you who didn't need to suffer to have that identity.
In the trans world, we call those people like that truscum and TERFs, and lo and behold they have caused a lot of damage to women's and trans people's rights. So how are we supposed to see people who mirror this "suffering is mandatory, or you're a predator" rhetoric on he/him lesbians, pan/bi lesbians, and endogenic/hybrid plural systems other than harmful to the pan, lesbian or plural communities?
It's all a grift to divide us and get us fighting against each other. And who benefits from all this? Fascists.
Stop being gatekeepers, you're not helping.
this is a good way to explain dysphoria: https://eveywinters.com/on-dysphoria-before-enduring-and-after/
, homelessness, Raleigh NC, not money asking, just help/advice
i just thought of myself as cute and said it and aaaa
fuck, i think this might be the first time i've called myself cute?
yeah, coming to terms with my transness 20 years ago and transitioning would have been awful, would have sucked so badly.
but, you know, i think the alternative was so much worse. i could have spent the last 20 years not wanting to die and instead learning to care for myself.
i'd be in a much better place by now, that is for sure.
maybe i should brush it before taking photos lol
transphobia, kalvin garrah
kalvin garrah is a fucking creep
transphobia, kalvin garrah
brennan is back, 3 years after kalvin bullied him off of the platform for not being trans enough, this is his video talking about the experience:
depressed trans girl, anarchist, neurodivergent, so so tired.
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