So someone described me as "extremely femme" the other day, and I'm trying to work out a) why they would say that and b) why it doesn't sit right with me

@Sparrow Thats awkward. I'd be put off if anyone assigned some kind of femme/masc description to me without my consent.

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@ratbaby it was super weird, and in response to a post where I was lamenting how since I've come out as non-binary people who used to be attracted to me aren't because I'm less feminine than they originally thought.

The person's response: "that sucks, but you're extremely femme! ✨"

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