@cosmicrose@queer.party nice. just remember which of us was the one who decided their depression was valid and the other one's was problematic and "insufferable" when you're living out on a farm you basically pushed me out of because i'm Too Depressed To Deal With or whatever. Cuz depression from crushing poverty and months of homeless fears is Bad, but as long as the one of us already well off and without worry about losing housing gets the safe stable life who cares, right?
@cosmicrose@queer.party i'd rather be "insufferable" than use my position of power to force a mentally ill and at risk person out of safety because Their Depression Is Bad.
@cosmicrose@queer.party i mean i'm the one who got sent out of the room to perform an uncomfortable sexual thing on myself alone in a bathroom i'd never done before that still makes me feel really bad just thinking about it but sure i'm the problem.
