the narrator in the song "jolene," by dolly parton, really just wants to bang jolene. like she absolutely wants to bone down but is sublimating it so hard as she tries to cling to the relationship with "[her] man" but she has never been that into him. he's who she settled for. she is on the verge of questioning her sexuality but can't quite get there bc of heteronormativity. anyway that's my thesis give me a phd. awooo