lewd content, sex meta, issue
@LottieVixen@dev.glitch.social in my (admittedly rather random) experience, cis-het people get enculturated with this specific idea of how "men and women" are supposed to perform/react in sex, and unless they broaden their perspective (with non-standard media, sexing with non-cis-het folx and PAYING ATTENTION) they tend to stick to those roles tenaciously. I've also encountered the "cis-het woman as passive mute unresponsive partner" thing before and it unnerved the *fuck* out of me.