@ayachan@octodon.social but it's like moving away from where you've lived for years, or changing jobs or schools or social clubs. it's just part of life.
I'd like to see more people move away from birdsite and bookface for ethical/legal/political/economic/psychological reasons. there's solid evidence that both those sites cause measurable emotional damage in heavy users. but, yeah... it ain't easy, and it ain't always *possible*. which I also dislike very much. :|