abusive exes
@Agra@witches.town @guerrillarain@witches.town both my Darth Vader exes were literal geniuses. one was a sociopath, the other was a narcissist. which isn't saying that sociopath/narcissist/geniuses *have to* be abusive; they have choices, as much as anyone else. another ex who exhibited abusive behavior was smart, but didn't seem to have any diagnosable illness; he was just kind of depressed, and chock full of extremely unhealthy dysfunctional relationship patterns.