Pondering how much to queer up Thanksgiving dinner today. I don't particularly want to start an intense discussion or argument in a restaurant, but neither do I want to go 100% boy mode.
@makyo I would say "if being yourself will be treated as 'starting an argument,' then these isn't healthy company."
I, however, have been told repeatedly that mt standards are unreasonable. So, I have no idea if that's good advice or not. It's my advice, but I know very little about people or social decorum.
@makyo I wish you the best possible outcome, whatever you decide.
Ta kya te.
@makyo All I think I can safely say at this point is that you're an adult and your own person. Ask yourself if continuing to keep someone in your life who demands -- implicitly or explicitly -- that you be someone other than yourself to appease them is right for you.