Pronouns, Incoherent Yet Joyful Screaming
So I posted the "hi I'm not a boy" thing and came out to a bunch of people on Faceboop and like 5 minutes later a Well Respected Academic was like "oh hey great timing I need to ask you if you're cool having your work be included in a talk I'm giving to like 100s of people and it'll be filmed and put online and I was planning on using she/her pronouns for you is that okay?"
Welp.