(~) MILF / kink
The MILF/DILF thing has become pretty much mainstream, but to me being a mum is a mental state & there's nothing inherintly sexual about it, in fact it's often counter productive to anything such.
The "mum paradox" as I call it, is when being a mum comes so naturally to you that you default to it, so any attempt at naughtiness devolve into mum-mode & end up going nowhere. It's especially problematic as a sub where you end up mothering who should be your dom, thus reversing roles.
(~) MILF / kink
Now just want to add. I have nothing against MILF stuff, after all, mums need love too, but it's a bit overdone to the point where it gets creepy.
Some wear the mum guise simply for the sake of fetish or kink, while others seek it as a shortcut to describe a thirst for a specific body type & potentially age, while ignoring that neither have anything inherintly to do with actually *being* a mum.