I spent over 2 years moderating large servers on Discord, stopped recently. Haven't been on public servers since, but joined one to have a look and you know what...? It's really difficult to be so used to moderating, because when you see an obvious troll, your troll senses start tingling immediately, but without the ability to act, it actually becomes stressful to just watch...
Might just have to skip public servers for the foreseeable future, I'll give it another chance though.