one of the things that frustrates me about being so out of sync with everybody (friends, hanging put/social schedules, furries, geek groups, etc...) is just how easily somebody can push something on to me, without considering what I'm up to or what my schedule is. Then I have to be the b**ch because I have to put my foot down and say "Hey, Im stopping this. I wish that you had talked to me first." It also means I complicate things in some instsnces simply because people did it out of order.
