Reference to sexual/fetish
I can look past differences of opinion in many cases. I like that my fandom and peer exp isnt in an ech chamber of "yes" people.
That being said... engaging in fetish or sex oriented spaces has been one sided (me not engaging). Yeah... that detachment thing has gone here too. With some of the issues cropping up in the last few months (incl a few which are related to stuff going down in politics), I feel a bigger gap between my views and the general methods of discourse