NB Gender stuff +++, body stuff
Like... I can look at myself in the mirror and see someone who's male-shaped but clearly not Masculine.
Without a ton of the signaling and accents that usually signal that.
Like... I'm not on HRT (yet?) but even Naked, I can look at myself and see someone who isn't Blocky and square and gross. I have some Curves now, my body hair is minimal and cute, and losing weight everywhere else has given me some cute little Tits too.
They didn't go down at All. O_o
So I'm really starting to see the person I always wanted to Be, and it's really affirming knowing that I'm not just permanently stained by a male puberty. It felt like that for a long time.
@Dingy_Rat@yiff.life Thank you, it's been a damn long road for me. I was so unhappy in my teens and 20s because of my body weight. It hurt really bad because I was the only fat person in my family.
Now, I look eight years younger than my Younger Brothers and feel fantastic running up stairs two at a time.
On top of that, uhhh... I actually kinda have gender presentation options now. Before I was so ashamed I just wanted to be covered up by something unassuming.
@clipclopboom@snouts.online Kerithe being highly energetic right now probably Helps, but I think it's more the volumizing shampoo and conditioner.
...Also, having to go to seven different auto repair shops with Duke, and not being worried about being Femme in a kilt and leggings.
Keri: He kept acting like I was embarrassing him, which means I'm doing it right. XD
@MapleDeer You should Delete Facebook. =P
re: NSFW talk (thoughts on Mastodon culture)
@alyxgalaxy@queer.party I think that the whole idea is that you should get to know someone and how they react to things before making any sort of sexualized comments.
And even then, keep it to the level of flirty positivism. Folks come here because they want to feel welcomed and appreciated without feeling On Display.
That being said, yes, it would be nice to have a sliding bar to denote how horny you are overall.
re: Please confirm this is witchcraft
@Draekos As an aside, take some time and look at your collected work as if you were someone stumbling on your art for the First Time.
Then try and comprehend the Energy that you put out there, and how that changes how you Appear to others.
And Then take that same understanding of energy, and think about how to call all that back to Yourself, with the sevenfold magnification it's been soaking in.
You're suffering in the Real World because your Spirit self, Here, isn't feeding her energy back into You. And Here, in This digital spirit world we've made for ourselves?
Sweetie, you ARE seven times actual size.
re: Please confirm this is witchcraft
@Draekos It's really Both.
Think of it like this: A musician knows how to arrange and manipulate patterns of sound to convey a Message, an Emotional State, and lead the listening mind and soul on a spiritual journey through the piece of music.
When they're doing it correctly of course.
Think of it a different way.
Where does the Horny come from in a piece of Your work? Your artistic intent and power, or the mind/body/soul of the person looking at it?
re: Please confirm this is witchcraft
@Draekos It happens. Stuff from Yes, Rush, Joe Satriani, Steve Vai and a few others are packed with Magic.
Prime Mover by Rush, and It Can Happen by Yes have a lot of power.
@valkyrja@yiff.life Those who wish to Be must put aside the alienation, get on with the Fascination, the Real relation, the underlying Themes.
We love and support and interact with folks here, and most other folks here are autistic, genderfucked, and multiple personalities too.
You're Home, Sweetie, this is a place you can just Be.
Why don't any Cishet men know how to compliment a woman?
You want to make them feel desirable, but not Desired.
You want to compliment their Choices, not their Body*
You want to be Kind, Positive, and Observant. This isn't about You, it's about Them, and making them feel more secure and confident in their appearance and to a degree, Body.
And brevity is the soul of Wit. Make it concise, pleasant, and don't overstay your welcome.
*Trans Girls slight exception.
Tell them their boobs are big
Southern Mass's local machine healer and part time witchdoctor.
Tiny motorcycles, magic potions, machine tools, progressive rock, trance states, and hand sharpened drill bits. Oh, and I read Tarot. Probably 18+ just to be sure.
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