drama, racism
when someone you used to be friends with ages ago refuses to grow the fuck up and is still offensive as fuck to your heritage but won't get it unless you slap them in the face with "YOU'RE A RACIST APPROPRIATING FUCKWAD" but you can't do that bc they have a following that will likely cause nothing but drama for you and you don't have the time, spoons or ANYTHING to handle it.
drama, racism, GROSS
Bellydance is not Rromani. You are not a fucking G*psy Soul bc you belly dance, are an unemployed stoner who's made weed part of their identity, and dabbles in Neo Wicca bullshit and thinks it's okay to leave menstrual blood everywhere bc "IT'S NATURAL" NONE OF THAT HAS TO DO WITH RROMANI, YOU'RE A DISGUSTING HUMAN BEING.