Nettle Briar @Ulfra_Wolfe@awoo.space

This is how these people talk to victims of sexual assault, of economic abuse, of not being listened to as victims.

They group everyone that knows the truth, block us out from talking -- even though what did Hazel have to do with any of this?! She's being outed here too.

I was asked to recount my story of trauma AGAIN. And AGAIN, what I said was ignored, details forgotten, everything just dropped as if I said nothing at all.

Endless walls to collect info

Calling victims trash. Well, there's a move I didn't expect but is somehow so unsurprising these days.

There is no way for me to communicate "I am just going to go out in the living room for five minutes, cat"

She will rush out just so she can sit next to me on the couch

This place is a mess, buuut.

@adeptomega@snouts.online @Xinjinmeng@mastodon.social

Then you get into all the stories of abuse I read growing up, how wolves were treated when being used to breed for wealthy men (but not as valued as big cats in the same places, so were often starved)

And the PTSD a lot of wolves went through.

It's horrific what people will do to animals they don't give a shit about and refuse to understand. They'll be snapped at by a wolf in agony and say "That's just how they say they love you"

@adeptomega@snouts.online @Xinjinmeng@mastodon.social

It's terrible because a lot of it is poor understanding on behalf of the owners.

With a wolf-dog, you never know how much instinct is going to be wolf, how much dog. You have to know how to interact with both.

A puppy growing up among others in a wolf pack learn quickly how hard to bite in what makes their litter mate yell out in pain, etc. -- humans don't give the same kind of training to wolf-dogs, and don't know how to handle a wolf-dog that cannot handle a small living space and boredom.

A lot of it's "stupid fucking humans".

She feels most comfy around me or Shy.

My cat feels safe only around me and it's kinda cute but like, I wish she'd go to other parts of the house.

Then she's all lying next to me and awwwwwww <3 <3