Meeting family this week outside California and people are shaking hands I usually decline and offer a fistbump but I didn’t feel comfortable (totally my hang up, nobody made it weird). After one handshake though I got so stressed I had to wash my hands right away, so I think I’m gonna have to be better about insisting on fistbumps.
@kyellgold we need a normalized non-verbal cue indicating “no touching, nothing personal.” 🫤
As someone in a nuanced situation, I’ve adopted shoving my paws deep in my pockets around people I don’t believe share the same precautionary behaviors as myself.
I find most people won’t extend their hands when they see that.
Corollary: you need to work your tail off with other non-verbal cues to compensate for the perceived frigidity.
(If only we had ACTUAL tails.)
@artfulreggie @kyellgold hoenstlt this ks why I like those color badges at MFF. I am terrible at cues but the badges are so helpful
@ZiaMacPine @kyellgold normalize badges outside of cons, cowards~
A lot of people already wear badges all day for work. We might as well make them more colorful and useful.
@artfulreggie @kyellgold I mean badges have their charms when you get to design and choose where to wear them....
