Honestly I understand what people mean about Spiderman in the MCU. My contention is they had to do something different because they already had two solid spiderman franchises that leaned into Peter Parker and they wanted to differentiate so an awakward dorky young guy enamored with Tony Stark wasn't a bad character choice.
He should have been Miles Morales but they were clearly scared out of their wits about THAT.
Its good seeing the Spiderverse/Miles Morales being successful