@unpretty everything is broken
@cadey can nixos mitigate that?
re: -, trans, aging, traumatic dreams
@tessaracht you're still here, which is pretty rad
@noracodes their internal apis may not be terribly stable
@noracodes that's totally fair.
@noracodes fwiw i don't see this as a zero sum game. activitypub isn't going away, and cohost will have growing pains.
how they represent themselves probably isn't a lie for them. that is to say i won't assume bad faith on their part until i feel it's warranted
federation is socially complex, and i can understand an implementer feeling like it's an anti-feature
also, i've seen a lot of people burn themselves out here. if cohost works, they'll be lessons for everyone on the way forward.
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@noracodes i don't begrudge them the opportunity to make what is, right now, effectively an incubator.
i'm waiting to see what happens when they need more resources.
@noracodes i always assumed many problems we're caused or exacerbated by marginalized people trying to do a lot of this work with almost no resources.
@noracodes the activation energy required here is too high for some users.
a lot of what can happen on more well funded platforms is you can taylor the user experience to so novice users can almost tutorial level their way through it.
it still feels like most masto user have more sophistication than my mom, for instance.
i think saying people don't want to learn is simplifing things a little
@noelle our execution environment keeps changing
@noelle flesh is weak, but machines are fragile
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re: daily routine
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