Resource Request for calling people in re:blue lives matter :boost_requested: 

Hey so my good friend who has only just gotten out from the thumb of their conservative family just got a blue lives matter sticker for his car. I wanna have this conversation with him but I want to offer him some stats and essays and whatever first, which he has agreed to read.

My question is if anyone has some favorite resources, especially from a queer intersectional perspective, that I can offer him?

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re: Resource Request for calling people in re:blue lives matter :boost_requested: 

@gryphon it depends what kind of place he's in / what he finds persuasive. my experience with ppl in that world (having grown up that way myself) is that bare stats are good to have, but they rely on a basic level of trust that is usually lacking -- the overwhelmingly common response is to find reasons to discount or rationalize the particular statistic or methodology at issue instead of engaging with the overall pattern.

from a queer intersectional perspective, imo it's hard to beat angela davis's "are prisons obsolete?" (which u can find free online) -- it's readable, not too long (50ish pages), and it is a huge infodump on the history of prisons and their rapid growth in the modern US. however... idk how that would be received? davis doesn't pull punches or soften things for white consumption, and from what u say i expect there would be considerable culture shock. that shock might be helpful in recognizing that there's a real problem or gap in his understanding, but it also might be so unfamiliar that he distrusts or rejects it after a few pages... so, i guess i'd recommend reading it yourself if u haven't, and then deciding whether to offer it to him directly or distill parts of it for your conversations while he's getting used to new perspectives.

re: Resource Request for calling people in re:blue lives matter :boost_requested: 

@fae
This is all good points. I am planning on watching/reading everything myself as well, now will make sure it's before I pass it along.

With my partner it was more a matter of time/exposure and his own personal growing distrust of establishment, so I'm in for a.long haul of a discussion.

But blunt might help him too, idk. I might ask him which he wants to start with.

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