cw harassment
why aren't conversations about this the norm? why won't people try to talk about these things instead of getting scared and shutting things out? how can you claim to care about keeping your space safe if you're going to act out of fear and not try to understand situations as they are? it's frustrating. been living with trying to dispel lies and bullshit for, what. how long? so many years.
but i'm still optimistic because i know people can do better than this