I'm done with all this explanation for now. I hope that gives some more context about the kind of things i've been through and where the shit you're hearing first originated. it's a sad story and involves a lot of people just not fucking talking to each other to resolve things :(
which is why i am so adamant about being out in the open about thoughts and feelings on this stuff now. it can't just be hidden behind closed doors, that's what leads to rumors growing out of control