Glrmf.
@Jacel that seems like--not a bad thing, tbh. it's exhausting to maintain a "friendship" with a negative balance. still, I'm so sorry that you've been dealing with that kind of cruft--it's never pleasant, and frequently painful. much, much empathy.
Glrmf.
@Jacel *nod* that's... oh, hon. much, much empathy. :/