Personal drama life shit
@Ulfra_Wolfe@witches.town it's a known tactic that abusers use to keep control over their victim, either by stifling independent or self-care behavior ("you can't say no to me, you're emotionally abusing me!" = victim feels terrible for being "abusive") or by isolating the victim from their support network, or both. it's incredibly shitty. I've had it pulled on me, fortunately in a very mild, indirect way that didn't mess up my life--but it still makes me *furious*.