oh also I just remembered, so last night Spouse is lying on his back falling asleep and Nar jumps up on the bed (announcing himself with a howl, like he does), walks up Spouse's body, *headbutts Spouse in the mouth*, and settles down proudly draped along Spouse's chest to stare at me and purr as hard as he could. Spouse mumbled "hi Nar" and I giggled.
later Spouse rolled over, so Nar climbed up onto my pillow and nuzzled my hand until he fell off the bed. BECAUSE NAR.