father's health, negative
@kara@occult.camp you need to take care of yourself, or you won't be able to help him. do what you can, then rest while you can. I want to say "it'll be okay" but we both know it might not be--but you're not a robot, you *need* downtime (even Roombas need recharging).
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this mostly alone.