more gender language things; reclaimed ableist slurs
Really, it's "madwoman" I feel the "I can call myself this but u cannot" feel with the most right now. And it's the "woman" part, specifically. "Mad" is fine, Im happy with that.
But its related to such a specific part of my identity that it feels wrong denying the 'woman' part and saying 'person' just to make sure other people dont get the wrong idea about me. I just generally hope the it/its pronouns get the NB part across loud n clear :V