STD stigma/serophobia; frustrations with the ace communities
Every time I hear "I like being ace because it means I can't get STDs/HIV!" I die a little more inside
there's so many reasons i stopped calling myself ace and left those communities and that's a big one.
STD stigma/serophobia; frustrations with the ace communities
obligatory disclaimer:
there's such toxic polarized discourse about all this so i'll make it clear ive got problems with the communities and behaviors i see, not ace people as a whole.
i just really need to talk about how frustrated i am sometimes because the ace communities completely failed me when I tried being part of them.