Gender transition (chest reconstruction) - info request, plz boost
I just had a consult with a top surgery doctor today! I am really excited but also somewhat anxious about the options. I'm in the fun grey area where I can go with double-incision or inverted-t procedures.
Because of my unique gender situation, I don't know many folks who've had top surgery procedures, or where to find them. I'd love to talk to folks who've had both of the above, especially inverted-T, to help me decide.
Thanks!
music/video, pop culture awesome, pfaf +++
Like, in case it wasn't obvious, yo, it basically me and all my friends?! Like, basically this is our aesthetic wheelhouse. We're /in/, folks.
And that just makes me gush so hard. it's so good. <3
music/video, pop culture awesome, pfaf +++
So Janelle Monáe, pop musician, pretty damn mainstream (like Rolling Stone magazine cover mainstream) released an album called Dirty Computer today
and with it made an 'emotion picture'- a collection of music videos to go with the album
about a pan triad of queer PoC trying to resist a dystopian regime's attempts to reprogram-mindcontrol
IN CASE IT WASNT OBVIOUS ITS QUEER AS HELL AND ABSOLUTE JOY
The Bloop: Ellu Talks About Weird Sea Life
i actually don't have any good takes to make about this other than 'oh gosh plants figuring out to do iridescence aaaa how pretty'
so, aaaaa how prettyyyy, lookit!
https://gizmodo.com/this-glitter-filled-algae-is-a-living-opal-1825359233
(h/t to pinkottr@birdsite!)
I don't know what all is going on right now. I know some things, but I'm not connected to any of the offline happenings, so all I know is what I see...
but a lot of my friends seem to really need a hug and to be held for a while and to just cry...
I'm very sorry that you're in pain right now, and that you feel isolated and alone. I'm sorry that your depression is winning. I'm sorry that your heart is aching. I'm sorry that I can't do more than post words on a screen, and that I can't physically hold you (if wanted or appropriate).
You are still important and worthy of love.
The world is full of some very nasty people, and some good folks but they aren't the issue, right now.
I'm sorry you are hurting.
happy memoriam: Ursula K. LeGuin
Today I learned: Ursula K. LeGuin spent a chunk of her life making an album of world music for a paracosmic civilization from one of her books. (' Music And Poetry Of The Kesh', paired with the book 'Always Coming Home')
Also that she was working in her last days on seeing it being reissued, and now it's on Bandcamp? Just...to buy? And that's really beautiful in its own way.
Thanks for one more story. <3
https://daily.bandcamp.com/2018/03/22/music-and-poetry-of-the-kesh-ursula-le-guin-interview/
Mood, of music having been stuck in heads from long ago:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AslPYSm7jfg
(hecking heck has it been six years)
Good News In The World (bugs, +++)
http://time.com/4885569/honeybee-population-increase/
so on the whole, at the very least, bees are doing okay in america, or at least pulling away from being severely endangered.
The bugs are makin' trends towards okay. 💜
There's not much to report here?
I just hope that today is not too utterly terrible for you.
In fact, y'know what?
I'll be wishing for you to have a *good* day
That you can find some warmth and happiness
a full meal
shelter and comfort and friendship
and the knowledge that you are loved.
This ott is wishing that for you. 💜
I'm only as real as I need to be. Are you hallucinating? //Memetic superweapon, playa-stained transdimensional emissary. Queer alien otter boy. [he/they] (NSFW)