i like the idea of destroying gender, as some nonbinary folks tend to, but there needs to be a word further than that. one more word. destroy gender as we know it? destroy the rigid gender-archy? destroy rigid gender norms?
gender
me, personally? my perspective on gender is that it's a social construct, something made up, but people can still take pieces from and enjoy it without being part of "gender" as we know it
i myself take pieces from it all the time because i have no frame of reference of knowing what modern society would be like with a neutral/third gender
...actually, maybe then, we should begin saying we'd like to destroy the idea of sex, instead? gender essentialism, is that what it's called?
because we gotta be better than that, because there's a lot of people who LIKE gender, but nobody likes being bound by gender's rules