I've realized that the only times I take days off work are for furry conventions, visiting parents, or surgery. So, next year I'm going to plan a normal person vacation, alone, with no outside demands on what I'm doing with any of my time. I'm considering also finding a way to disconnect from my usual distractions, like wiping my phone and getting a burner SIM so it's only useful for emergencies.
A floof, and some other things.
She/her