mh, hosting guests, etiquette (-?) 

Am... am I the only one who like, emotionally needs some warning of if a guest is going to be over for more than a handful of hours?

Like, generally the number of days they'll be visiting is also the number of days warning that's a bare minimum of me not being a ball of fucking anxiety?

mh, hosting guests, etiquette (-?) 

@Draekos No, it's definitely not just you. I had a friend once call me and ask if I'd give a cup of coffee in an hour and I felt like I was about to go into a panic attack, ended up saying no and sorry.

I do feel bad for that still, but in reality, I just don't function without some sort of plan, schedule or defined expectation and to my knowledge I do not have a medical reason as to explain why that is either. So no, you're definitely not alone.

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