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Am... am I the only one who like, emotionally needs some warning of if a guest is going to be over for more than a handful of hours?
Like, generally the number of days they'll be visiting is also the number of days warning that's a bare minimum of me not being a ball of fucking anxiety?
mh, hosting guests, etiquette (-?)
@Draekos I'll clean when I get home
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@Draekos definitely 100% ok, in fact, I feel like that would be common decency from the inviter and invitees.
mh, hosting guests, etiquette (-?)
I thought that kind of reaction is normal?
Not being given any kind of heads up is almost a given panic attack.
mh, hosting guests, etiquette (-?)
@Draekos No, it's definitely not just you. I had a friend once call me and ask if I'd give a cup of coffee in an hour and I felt like I was about to go into a panic attack, ended up saying no and sorry.
I do feel bad for that still, but in reality, I just don't function without some sort of plan, schedule or defined expectation and to my knowledge I do not have a medical reason as to explain why that is either. So no, you're definitely not alone.
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@Draekos Oof, yeah. That's noy too much to ask, and I 100% feel your pain. All my plans tonight are also out the window because another surprise party at my house. Yaaaaaaaaay. *hugs on Kos*
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In related news, wants to spend today working on my twine game and getting some chore things done.
Seems I'm spending it instead alternating between trying to clean and panic attacks.