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mh-, social-, kind of a subtoot but it's about myself 

rrrgh

i do this thing, way too much, where i try to help when people didn't ask for help (which is a problem) and i don't realize I'm doing it until the person gets upset or brushes me off and then i feel really bad for doing it but i don't know how to apologize

like, i really shouldn't have tried to help because this is absolutely not something i know more about than the person asking for help, why did i try to help

re: mh-, social-, kind of a subtoot but it's about myself 

@Felthry Yeah, this is... like, a whole Thing. I do it too sometimes. >,,<

re: mh-, social-, kind of a subtoot but it's about myself 

@Felthry it sucks to be in that period between figuring out a pattern you want to break in your own behavior and figuring out how to break it

rooting for you, though

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mh-, social-, kind of a subtoot but it's about myself 

@Felthry Oh, gosh. I'm sorry.

(Nuzzles a kind-hearted multifur.)

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