interpersonal negative 

i am confused and rather upset

a longtime friend of ours apparently decided yesterday to cut contact because they "just found out about you and [other person]", where [other person] is someone they don't get along with but who we've kept in touch with and still consider a friend

i don't even know what happened to get them to dislike [other person] so strongly in the first place, we don't want to pry into things like that and neither of them ever seemed to want to talk about it
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re: interpersonal negative 

was it a mistake to not ask about what had happened?
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positive re: interpersonal negative 

it turns out it was a misunderstanding* and they do not want to cut contact anymore

*much more complicated than that implies and i still need to figure out/fix what caused the misunderstanding in first place but that will be Later because no spoons

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positive re: interpersonal negative 

@Felthry *Extremely* glad to learn it's less dire than it seemed. And, still sorry for the misunderstanding but it's happy to hear it seems to be a misunderstanding you and they can work through.

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