@kat it also feels like... we can maybe tell more easily when things are trying to manipulate us, and deliberately avoid them because of it? like there are a ton of youtube videos that look otherwise interesting but then they have some obvious clickbait title like "thing X does THIS when you do Y??" and have some pixellated thing in the thumbnail clearly saying "if you don't watch the whole video you don't get the answer" which just feels really rude
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@kat we also find it really off-putting the way you see thumbnails with incredibly over-exaggerated facial expressions like that *clearly* wasn't your actual reaction to this mildly surprising thing, you're just trying to make people click on the video and also i find that kind of overacting to be really uncomfortable
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