plural, but in a “someone told me i’m abusive toward myself because i don’t have separate social media accounts and the lid went right back onto that pickle jar” kind of way
also I mentioned like “there’s kind of some fuzzy boundaries between who’s who” and they got really angry and disgusted and demanded I always tag it as a murder kink from then on
i guess if it’s that offensive it probably doesn’t count as being plural
@kat also we have a guess as to who it might have been who told you that and uh. please don't take anything they say about identity to be representative of any larger group, if it's who we think it is they're very.... something i don't have a word for
-F