normalizing transphobic language by veiling it behind jokes or memes or whatever isn't cool, and if you double down on it by getting on my case for being offended over a joke you're a piece of shit and I won't trust you ever again.
that's almost a decade of friendship down the drain, but I'm sick of my concerns over harmful language being dismissed as irrationality.
@Forgebold Memes? I thought they were outright transphobic dogwhistles.
@kellerfuchs oh I don't disagree but that's what said ex-friend insisted they were.
:(
*offers @Forgebold many soff hugs.*
@Forgebold Oh, sorry, I had missed the earlier toots >_<'
*is sorry she missed the context.*
@kellerfuchs don't worry about it, I don't use masto enough myself so when I do I tend to get lost regarding some differences in features between it and birdsite, which I still use more to my eternal shame.
*nods, hugs @Forgebold some more.*
Is okies :3
@kellerfuchs thanks, I needed that. ❤️
I'm way past my tolerance limit of rehashes of the tired old attack helicopter and "assume my gender" memes.