Plural gatekeeping with a side dish of DARVO
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The continued albiest bahavior in fandom spaces
Imagine thinking that you have to suffer an arbitrary amount for the right to have an identity, and imposing that standard on everyone else around you, and creating a false zero sum game between people like you, and people different to you who didn't need to suffer to have that identity.
In the trans world, we call those people like that truscum and TERFs, and lo and behold they have caused a lot of damage to women's and trans people's rights. So how are we supposed to see people who mirror this "suffering is mandatory, or you're a predator" rhetoric on he/him lesbians, pan/bi lesbians, and endogenic/hybrid plural systems other than harmful to the pan, lesbian or plural communities?
It's all a grift to divide us and get us fighting against each other. And who benefits from all this? Fascists.
Stop being gatekeepers, you're not helping.