FurryLifeOnline, syscourse, subtoot (---)
You know what Somekh? Fuck you, you're the truscum of the plural community, and you're poisoning people's minds with this harmful exclusionary smear. Pinche sinverguenza.
FurryLifeOnline, syscourse, subtoot (---)
@FreyaManibrandr Stuff like this is why like, I don't even really talk about plural possibilities within myself. Because it makes me anxious that it'll be seen as not "real" enough, that I'm belittling people that have really suffered, that I'm fake and a problem and making people dealing with real issues look like a joke or a fad.
I know it's trash, but tell this to the inherently irrational concept of anxiety responses.
re: FurryLifeOnline, syscourse, subtoot (---)
@Facet This is -exactly- why this enrages me. Regardless of whether or not you really are plural or not is not something I worry about, because having a space to explore the possibility without judgement would be important either way. This is why gatekeeping is so harmful.
I felt the same kind of anxiety and wondering if I really am enby because of the same kind of gatekeeping shit I had been exposed to and brainwashed by.
re: FurryLifeOnline, syscourse, subtoot (---)
@FreyaManibrandr But the research! It's more important than real peoples' actual experiences and how they cope with things they don't know about themselves!
re: sarcasm grows, FurryLifeOnline, syscourse, subtoot (---)
@FreyaManibrandr Everyone knows that psychology especially is a hard science that is never changing or evolving, and that the presence of any scientific-like data makes our understanding set in stone and unquestionable.