I really wish people didn't use terms like "people who can't have a normal one", "freaks" and "weirdoes" as insults at all, to be honest. As a neurodivergent and xenogender aroace, I've seen these used to attack people like me and others who just ~do/are weird things/cringy~ way too much for me to see them as harmless insults that can be used to attack bigots with no consequences.