Given how we were preyed on and persecuted by moral narcissists as we we were clawing our way out of Altfurry spaces 3 years ago, and how traumatic that experience was.

I get some vindictive satisfaction from seeing them crumple and back off as soon as the question of endgame is put on the table.

"Once a shitty person, always a shitty person." Or "Lol you traded one extreme for another!" Are lines we often got hit with back then.

How ironic then that my persecutor got themself """cancelled""" for pluralmisia, and the rest of them were caught being a part of the Furry Raiders.

I admit, it is hard to talk about this, because people too easily assume that because I refused to persecute someone for making an honest mistake, I was defending the erroneous action.

Quite the opposite, it is very important to outline the path to redemption, and its conditions. This is because keeping the guilty party perpetually so out of enforced uncertainty, will only teach them that doubling down and denial gives the best outcome.

Honesty gets thrown out the window when you put someone in a no win situation, and this kind of uncertainty is very similar to the kind of tactics a narcissistic parent would use on a child.