Okay last thought before bed: virtue signaling
This is obviously bad faith arguing, but it's an especially unnerving tactic to me. It's abnormally open about the idea that motive outweighs action - that you need to be pure of heart to do good.
But as living creatures, everything is motivated, you can find a cynical reason for everything.
Questioning your intentions is good, but this gatekeeping only allows those who are 100% certain about anything, and that necessarily means narrow-mindedness
Okay last thought before bed: virtue signaling
I feel like this rhetoric has a way of seeping in that goes unappreciated.
It's so common to see someone take offense to the accusation that they're virtue signaling, but taking offense in the first place means they've successfully made this personal. We know that issues go beyond us, so it doesn't matter what WE say this truth, the point is that it's a truth.
But this is an ad hominem that intends to force you to legitimize your argument
Okay last thought before bed: virtue signaling
@heatherhorns my best response would be "So what if I am? Would you prefer I stay silent? In which case, what would be YOUR motive for that?"