@Fuego Furry served as a fertile field for self-discovery, but these days it feels as much like the fandom of my youth as of my present. I'm no less "personally (post)furry" than I was when I was a teenager, but I feel less need to constantly splay my train at people and surround myself with people doing the same with their own metaphors.
Give me a con for 40somethings, call it the Farm Upstate.