I’ve also been thinking about my boundaries with money a lot, I think because this weekend was spendy for me. I can spend a lot on food (necessary, theoretically gets used/easy to dispose of, $10-100 increments) and books (difficult to damage, $5-40 increments), and used books/cooking seems to justify it, but avoid dropping money on anything else (models/minis/paint REALLY comes to mind here). I don’t feel great about that.