I was raised with the ideal of being married with kids and a house AND working a job I’d feel passionate about, related to what I did in college. Not unusual I know. But, like realizing I might never be married/SHOULD not be a parent/will never be able to afford a house on my own, I’m now realizing that what I’m passionate about is art and pursuing that would require a well off SO with the patience of a saint, more support than my parents have or will ever provide, or a day job.