Thinking; I’m unsure if I’m extroverted or introverted. Leaning low key extrovert; I’m happy for hours quiet while hiking with others, drawing around others, in a coffee shop. Similarly social media and MU*s are low key social without being intensely committed so they’re almost dangerously appealing as time commitments. I can take center stage for a while but not lead role which might be a time/intensity thing, f’rex if you’re the GM you get no downtime.
WFH gets me outside when I can and I suspect cons or parties are the opposite, enough time social I need alone time - which work doesn’t provide because office work is a bad niche of neither truly social nor truly alone, enough that I’ll need *either* to recharge.