@artemis @Leucrotta I think this is the best way to phrase it. "With my work schedule as it is and the things I need to take care of, I only have time to visit every 2-3 weeks."
Brining in 'work schedule' is an excellent defense.

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@Kusimanse @artemis@vulpine.club It's about to go critical; the group I hike with has stuff March 4, I saw them this past weekend and the weekend before, and March 9 is my Mom's birthday so I'm required to show up one of those weekends. I'm already apparently upsetting her by not checking in as regularly as I could.

Ideally I'd like to commit to March 11 and just see that Saturday as a total emotional/physical write off, and not see them until them.

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