that last post connects to thinking about religions;
Christianity has all the answers. Usually they're about obeying someone more powerful than you, and by sheer chance they're always provided by someone more powerful.
In Judaism, the answer is always about love and compassion if you ever want something which resonates more than "we've always done it this way."
In Buddhism, there *are* no fixed answers, and that's okay; the only reason it wouldn't be okay is you really want a fixed answer.